PrayforThem !

Bismillahirrahmanirahim.

With the Names of Allah, the Greatest Power,

Assalam, hye, haha, such a long time since i didn't open this blog and write something. 

yes! such a long time ! and time flies so fast !!!! MasyaAllah.

haha, sorry, this entry is the first for 2014! hahah ! 

as what i've said before, 2014 will be my buzy year ! haha,

and... How’s 2014 has been treating you? Hope everyone is doing great -

and me, 2014 comes with hope, struggle and faith.

first, Happy Birthday to me !!!!!!

yeeaaahaaaa !!! i'm a baby of new year ! 14th of January !

There is just something about starting a new year and telling yourself “I’m gonna make this year about bla, bla and bla..” I don’t know how long it will last but at least I have my objectives.. and ALWAYS aim high!! Yes, that’s what I always do.. Aim high! Like an old saying…” Aim for the flight, you might end up with a handsome steward!”   Haaa.. I just made that up..What I meant is.. aim for the best, if you don’t get it, you know you’ve tried your best..!

Or maybe you can say.. “At least niat tu ada…” Hahaha…

There are few things I need to focus this time.. SPM 2014. My studies, my physisc, my chemistry, my add math, and blablabla. and of course my highest target is to get 11 A+  to be in my hand < ins. allah, 11 A shaja pun dh cukup, tp kalau ada plus2 tu lg bgus =)> and i believe in myself i can get it ! please Allah, need Your help! 

To make mama and abah proud of me is the main point  and to show them that a litlle girl like me can do such something big suprise to the world, ! haha, such hiperbola ! but, that is the main right now, try my best, make family , teachers and school proud of me, then continue my way to be in white uniform at IJN ! ameeeeen .....

 Seriously, I need to change my lifestyle. As a woman, your self-care is important. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love others. Juggling roles between  student, a buzy hostel life and a daughter with responsibilty, definitely taking toll in my life. Stress is always there, it’s taxing to my body and it sooner or later it will show. 

Some tests and exams may be tough but remember , Allah knows how much you can bear friends. 

and last, Please Malaysians, #Pray for them in MH370 !

Although most of us have been fortunate not to have experienced similar adversity, we can readily understand the frustration and psycological stress that loved ones go through during these difficult times, particularly when there is a lack of substantial progress in the search for the missing aircraft. ==''

Please come back,

miracle do happen ! Keep praying !

My thoughts and prayers for the passengers and crew member of MH370 and their family members.. #PrayForMH370

Haze, drought, and the lost of the flight, some of Allah's test to us, keep praying, Allah just want to see how we overcome with this and keep depend with Allah~

May 2014 brings you success, joy, wealth, good health.. and most importantly… happiness!!

InsyaAllah..

XOXO

 

December !

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.

With the Names of Allah, the Greates Love '

In just a few days, we will say goodbye to 2013 and hello 2014!! Yup, just a few hours time.. time really flies now days, right?? 2013 is a big year for me, many things have happened and I have learned a few things about myself, life and people around me.. and 2014 will be the most  challenging year for me, haha, hye SPM ! ( insert firework here please)

and, the most important about 2013 is i love my dress, all my baju and all the scarves yg tergantung banyak2 dalam almari tu. heewheww, tahun ni abah belikan almari baru besar pulak tu, semua baju i gntung,heehehe,, bak kata Mrs Bradshaw ~  “I like my money right where I can see it: hanging in my closet.” — Carrie Bradshaw , huhu, best sangat, buka ja almari, lots of colorful dresses hanging ! 

and i don't think i can enjoy all the fashion update in 2014 as i know i'll be busy mengalahkan bee, haha, so, thanks 2013 as giving me great days to enjoy all my fashion days !
as a muslimah and a girl yg menutup aurat, tak salah nak berfesyen, but, make sure ia menepati citarasa wanita!

faces of 2013 !

#Lesson 1 : As I'm growing up, life will be more tougher ! haha, 2013 shows me : nothing good  comes from  last minutes works ! haha, insyaAllah, tahun depan, spm, tak lagi, T always nagging here and there as I never change this habit, haha, ya, sometimes , dengar2 jugak orang cakap,  '' kerja last minit ni laa yang datang hasil,'' haha, ya, tp, as a student , ya, reading and revise at eleventh hour mmg sia2 ! Dapat hasil pun cukup2 mkn =)

#Lesson 2 : #PeopleChange . Men and Women, Boys or Girls, semua, tak terkecuali, It's easy to trust people, but, once you break it, sorry, it wouldn't  be like before . Trust is like a paper, once it's crumpled, it can't be perfect again ! 

#Lesson 3 : #LoveFamily, Family isn't about sharing the same genetics, Thats being related, Family is when you love someone to death, and You would do anything for them, You trust them, Take care of them, And in return they do the same. Its the type of bond you hold together.

and, 

Readers, YOU NEVER APPRECIATE ALL OF THE THINGS YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER DID FOR YOU UNTILL YOU FIND YOURSELF DOING THE SAME THINGS FOR YOUR KIDS !

#Lesson 4 : Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped 

by dogma — 

haha, first time i wrote this, friends always asked what is #dogma? this -which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. yes, yourself is priority ! 

#Lesson 5 : Jac, thanks, i love your song, very much , '' Jika mahu menjadi pacarku Haruslah ikut rentakku dulu Ku tak selesa dikawal selia dan didominasi ! ''

#Lesson 6 : The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found, love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

#Lesson 7 :   Sabda Nabi Muhammad SAW: “Sekiranya aku boleh menyuruh 
seseorang sujud kepada seseorang manusia, nescaya aku akan suruh perempuan sujud kepada suaminya.” (Di riwayatkan oleh A.Hurairah) . Amazing isn’t it.. I have no comment, just memorize the hadith, ladies!

#Lesson 8 : Time is Golden ! ya , sangat emas !

and last,

i found this at the cover of a novel that my friend read, (sorry, can't remember the title) and i love it !
 Takdir Allah takdir terindah,
Yakin dengan ketentuanNya,
Sabar dengan dugaanNya,
Bahagia pasti milik kita, InsyaAllah !

In general.. year 2013 has been a kind to me. Alhamdullillah.I want to strive to a be a better muslimah in 2014. I wanna be a better person, friend, daughter, student in whatever way I can.. 

Happy new year from sukma and family. May 2013 brings the best for all of us!! InsyaAllah..
Thanks for reading,
Life i
s about a life, slow down and enjoy it !
Pray for me, Wish me luck !
Much Love, 
Sukma , X0X0,

night motivation !

With the Names of ALLAH, the Greatest Love,

Keep Calm. Hahahahaha.

Please. Live your own life.

This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. 

Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soulmate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? 

So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.

bye, till meet again,

love you readers.

Love, Sukma ,

Appreciate Women !

Assalamualaikum. 
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
With the Name Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful .

Islam has raised the status of women from below the earth to so high that paradise lies at her feet. -Dr. Maulana Ansari

Women. Lady. Girl. Gadis. Mak. Perempuan. Ibu. and blablabla.

haha, Perempuan. 

Warning : Please guys, hargailah wanita wanita di sekililing anda , either she's

your mum, grandma, auty, your sister, your neighbour, your girl or other.

All of them are WOMAN. A VERY SPECIAL CREATURES FROM GOD.

And for all girls out there, see, how precious we are ~

1- WOMB- RAHIM 

Yes, kita wanita dianugerahkan Allah dengan ciptaan hebat, rahim.

Womens' body part with very special name ~RAHIM . Ya, nama Allah~ Maha Penyayang.

Allah takkan memberi nama semulia itu kepada sesuatu yang hina di sisinya.

Allah akan mengambil sesuatu yg juga mulia untuk dianugerahkan sesuatu yang mulia.

Rahim juga penghubung kepada makhluk.  Di dalam rahim, wanita dapat menjaga ciptaan Allah dan memberi makan kepada apa yang Allah ciptakan.

Betulkan, ciptaan Allah Maha Hebat.

And, women, we have a very2 special chance- yes, to be a mother, pragnant and give birth to our own baby with our own strength !

Firman Allah, ~

Aku memberikannya (wanita) kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan yang sering kali datang dari anak-anaknya. 

and

 Wanita yang memberi minum susu badan kepada anaknya akan mendapat pahala dari setiap titik susu yang diberikannya =)

Waa, see ~ So, kepada yang buang2 baby tu, rugi ! Dapat dosa, kalau susukan,

pahala beribu2 dapat !

Haha, and guys, please, appreciate your mum, mak, ibu, mama etc.
They've suffered enough to make u as what you're right now.


2- WIFE - ISTERI

Ya, sebagai wanita, kita diberi peluang untuk menjadi seorang isteri. Besar ganjaran menjadi isteri solehah, and banyak pahala dapat daripada menjadi seorang isteri. =)

When a husband and a wife look at each other with love, Allah look at them with mercy !
Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan, semuanya beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.Girls, women, if you offer your five daily prayers and fast in Ramadhan, guard your chastity, and obey your husband, it will be said to you ~ '' Enter Paradise from whichever gates you wish '' ~  

Wanita dicipta dari tulang rusuk laki-laki, karana memang untuk dijadikan pasangan laki-laki, menjadi pendamping laki-laki, menjadi kesenangan laki-laki, memperkuat dada laki-laki dan sekaligus menjadi penyeimbang hidup laki-laki =) Yaa, we're very important for them <boys> !
Guys, women are created from a rib, if you try to straighten the rib, you'll break it, so, deal with the rib gently ~ ok, ni maksud jelas sikit ~  wanita diciptakan daripada tulung rusuk  yang bengkok, jika nak luruskan , sama jugak nak patahkannya, jika biar, tulang tu akn tetap bengkok, so, sebabkan bengkok, kenalah hati2, sentiasa lemah lembut dengannya ~
 Dalam bentuk kiasan ia bermaksud, tulang rusuk dalam bengkok adalah berbeza daripada tulang yang lain sebagaimana wanita berbeza dari kaum lelaki. Perbezaan ini mempunyai kepentingannya jesteru tulang rusuk tidak boleh dicaci kerana berkeadaan seperti itu kerana tanpanya manusia menghadapi masalah. Begitu juga dengan wanita, tanpanya kehidupan tidak sempurna. Kaum wanita adalah cantik dalam keadaan semulajadinya walaupun dalam aspek-aspek tertentu mereka berbeza dari kaum lelaki. Pihak lelaki perlu menerima wanita dengan sifat semulajadinya dan tidak boleh bersikap keras terhadap mereka. Mereka disuruh menghormati wanita dan bekerjasama bagi mencapai matlamat yang Allah tetapkan. Wanita ada peranannya dan kadang kala peranan itu berbeza daripada kaum lelaki. Perbezaan peranan tidak melambangkan kehinaan.

Sesungguhnya wanita itu dicipta dari tulang rusuk. Dan tulang rusuk yang paling bengkok adalah bagian atas. Jika Anda meluruskannya, sama artinya Anda memecahkannya. Jika Anda biarkan, dia akan tetap bengkok. Karena itulah, Anda harus selalu memberikan nasihat-nasihat kebaikan. (HR. Muslim)

3- MOTHER ~ IBU

Dan wanita setelah menjadi isteri berpeluang menjadi seorang ibu ! Yeay !Teramat banyaklah keistimewaan menjadi seorang ''mommy'' ni ~

Daripada Aisyah r.a. "Barang siapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuannya, lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.

Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia daripada dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya .Apabila telah lahir (anak) lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

Apabila semalaman (ibu) tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah SWT memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 orang hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah SWT. Wanita yang bersalin akan mendapat pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa dan setiap kesakitan pada satu uratnya Allah mengurniakan satu pahala haji.

                                                                             dan ~

Sekiranya wanita mati dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin, dia akan dikira sebagai mati syahid ! MasyaAllah !

''Women have simple tastes. They get pleasure out of the conversation of children in arms and men in love.''
H. L. Mencken 

and last , 

When you're a daughter, you open a door of Jannah for your father,

When you're a wife, you complete half of the Deen of your husband,

and when you're a mother, Jannah lies under your feet ! =)

Good night, bye

Assalamualaikum.

Much Love, XOXO

Mamta, Abahta, Sista 1 and 2,  more love !

Stress Management

Assalamualaikum.

With the Names of Allah, the Greatest Love.

Yaa, mengikut tajuk, STRESS.

Something 'bout stress, tension, depressed, down, gloomy, and ect.

Semenjak dua menjak ni dah rasa semakin stress, exam pun semakin dekat.

Students' life_ stress, haha, usual =)

So, how i cope with this?

Lain orang lain caranya, 

tapi bg saya, 

the first way how i cope with this gloomy situation, is i will SLEEP.

Yes, TIDUR. haha, si, kawan2 yg nampak saya selalu sgt tidur tu maknanya tengah stress, haha <w'pun hakikatnya tak stress pun suka tidur =) tapi kalau tiba2 ada masalah, tidur adalah perkara utama yang saya akan buat. Haha, for me, when i sleep, i'll be in my own dreams,

takda sapa pun boleh kacau ! Haha, having fun in my own world, n kadang2 boleh buat benda yang di luar jagkaan ketika di dalam mimpi ! Haha, mcm baru2 ni, got in terrible stress, and i enjoyed my own slept, on my own pillow mellow mattress, and dreaming  i was driving in my own VolkswagenThe  Beetle ! Haha ! 

Believe in Irine Nadia's quote ~
Masa hadapan adalah milik mereka yang percayakan pada  keindahan mimpinya.

 Actually, sleeping is ggod for women's beauty ! They don't call it "beauty sleep" for nothing. While you sleep, your body repairs itself. Experts say you need 8 hours of sleep to avoid puffy, bloodshot eyes, as well as dark under-eye circles and a pale washed-out complexion. =)

                      I’m just a human. I’m not perfect, I enjoy my life  but still I had my breakdown occasionally especially when I’m super exhausted. It’s ok to feel like that. It’s acceptable and only temporary. We are not angels. As long as we know how to manage it. It should be fine.                                

                     Next, Imagine this.. you’re lack of sleep for days, physically exhausted from all things,  teachers are asking for homeworks,screaming for experiment reports, add-maths exercise, and blablabla, , you haven’t bathe,  and all you want to do is just rest preferably in a quiet environment which is almost impossible!!Bila semua mcm ni jadi, what I do is I just go somewhere quiet. Usually THAT WILL BE IN TOILET. Hahaha… Close my eyes, take deep breath in and out until I feel better, then I switched back to my student mode =)

Next. Ramai yang cakap bila mereka stress, banyak yang layan lagu. Ok jugak mcm tu. Kalau saya mungkin akan layan lagu jugak, tapi jarang2 untuk memilih mendengar lagu bila stress. Dengar pun lagu2 balada, penyejuk jiwa. Hahah!

Tapi, saya memilih untuk layan Raja Lawak, Maharaja Lawak, Karoot Komedia, Super Spontan or apa2 sahaja yg boleh buat saya gelak, ketawa ! Haha! Tengok yang dah ulang 50 kali pun tak kesah asal boleh buat gelak and release segala resah, masalah dalam otak. Haha, tapi kalau di hostel, no tv or youtube, saya lebih memilih membaca. Tapi bukan bahan berat2, just Ujang or Apo ! Haha, that's why la kawan2 selalu jumpa banyak majalah Ujang dlm laci meja saya ! Haha!

Another important thing is to let your other half know. My Captain,my mama or my sista, they're my best partner-in-crime, they have been a great support to me. they knows when I started to look like zombie walking around the house, they will try to make me up, happy and smiling =)

Kawan2 jugak banyak membantu, tenkiu then =)

But as for now, I’m just gonna enjoy my life while I can..

Alhamdulilah. 

"The most important thing is to enjoy your life -- to be happy. It's all that matters." - Audrey Hepburn

September !

Bismillahirrahmanirahim. 
With the Names of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

Setiap yang terjadi akan ada hikmahnya, Percayalah !

Dan belajarlah dari pengalaman. 

Fri, the 13th of Sept. HAPPY BIRTHDAY ABAH, 
SELAMAT MENAMBAH USIA ABAH TERSAYANG,
semoga umur abah panjang, insyaAllah, i'll make your dreams ; to see me at the IJN with doc's white uniform come true, ya, my promise, 
Ya Allah, mohon permudahkan jalan, Ameen.

Abah, no matter where i go in life, who i get married to, how much time i spend with guys, how much i love my boyfie, you'll always be my number ONE man !

Next week, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA,
SelamatMenambah Usia,
I LOVE U MORE, Mamta !

Readers, YOU NEVER APPRECIATE ALL OF THE THINGS YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER

  DID FOR YOU UNTILL YOU FIND YOURSELF DOING THE SAME THINGS FOR YOUR KIDS 

My heroes are and were my parents. I can't see having anyone else as my heroes.

We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves right?~

 Every new day is another chance to be a better person than you were the day before.
Hidup ni misteri. kena bijak bermain dengan takdir,

Percaya pada diri sendiri, jangan dengar suara dari mulut orang lain, dengar kata hati sendiri, percaya dengan apa yang diri kita lakukan.

Apapun yang kita buat, yang penting IKHLAS.

ya, ikhlas, insyaAllah Allah bantu. =)

When you don't understand what's happening in your life, close your eyes, breathe & say,'' Allah I know this is your plan just help me.'''

Last, apapun yang jadi, jangan cepat putusasa, percaya pada diri,

anda hebat ! and #KeepSmiling !

and....

My life. My choices. My problems. My mistakes. My lessons. Not your business, mind your own problems before you talk about mine.

Dear ALLAH thank you for today, yesterday and tomorrow. My family, my joys, my sorrows, for all that made me stronger. Alhamdulillah. Amin.

Ramadhan- Part III

Assalamualaikum.

RAMADHAN. Yes, my third enrty of Ramadhan.

Have u  read the second and first one?

Hahaha,, yg terlepas,, nihaaaa,, 

Ramadhan Part II - Part II

Ramadhan Part I - Part I

Ramadhan is Month of Allah, Whose beginning is Mercy , Whose Middle is Forgiveness, Whose End is Freedom from Fire ~

Alhamdulilah, sedang berada di fasa ketiga, Alhamdulilah.

10 malam terakhir.When we are talking about the last ten days of Ramdhan, we'll talk about LAILATUL-QADR. Yes, the night of power.

Malam seribu bulan. Bertuahla pada sesiapa yang dapat memiliki malam seribu rahmat.

And when we're talking 'bout the last days of Ramadhan, we'll talk about ;-

-Shoppping

-Baju Raya,Kasut Raya, Langsir Raya, Kuih Raya, Sofa Raya, and ect. all of raya here and there~

-Ops Sikap, excdent,  mercun,saman, and ect.

p/s ~ buat adik2 jiran sebelah2 rumah, main mercun tu baik2, org rumah saya kuat melatah !

-Balek Kampung

=) KEPADA pemandu-pemandu semua, yang akan balek ke kampung halaman, sy harap awak2 semua dpt pandu dengan penuh hati2, i'm so worried cuz buletin utama keep showing all of the excdnt here and there, kesian laa,, RAYA is about HAPPINESS, jangan hadirkan kesedihan di hari berbahagia. Mulakan pemanduan dengan doa, banyak zikir semasa memandu <wah2,macam la kite tu dah boleh drive> ni petua yang diambil iktibar dari abah sy , abah dlm kereta kalau travel jauh2 suka on zikir2 ja,, tmbh2 zikir yahanana, hahaha,

-Ketupat, lemang, kuih muih, rendang, serunding, ect.

=) yaa, juadah raya, sumpah sedap memang 1 Syawal kerja makan benda2 ni jaa,, bukan senang nak dapat, tambah2 serunding tok dengan maaa buat, memang tak lepas!

And! Lagi 2 or 3 hari lagi makngah akan balek dan kami sepupu sepapat akan berkerah tenaga buat kuih ! #Priceless moment !

-Lagu raya !!!!!

haha,,, sekarang memang kerja dengaq lagu raya dimana mana !

Seronok betul !

And, last of Ramadhan ~

Ramadhan,  akan pergi meniggalkan kita,

Ya, Allah, cepatnya masa, rasa2 Ramadhan tahun ni la paling bermakna,

sangat2 bermakna !

Awal2 Ramadhan lagi dah Allah dah bg ujian, sakit perempuan yang melarat, then di akhir Ramadhan ni baru dpt taw bahagian dalam telinga dh membengkak, 

Ya Allah, permudahkanlah urusan, '''

Ramadhan kali ni benar2 mengajar erti syukur, sedekah, ikhlas, ibadat. 

Alhamdulilah, harap2 dapat bertemu lagi Ramadhan tahun hadapan,

May prayers in the holy month of Ramadhan brings you more prosperity, faith, saticfaction,  and devine love for Allah.  

Much Love, Sukma.

SALAM LEBARAN.

MAAF ZAHIR DAN BATIN =)

Till meet again !

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